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You miss 100% of the shots you never take!

What do you want to achieve in life? You may want to advance your career; build better relationships with others; learn a new language; simplify your life; raise a family; the list goes on! How are you progressing so far?

What about your health?

Most of us try to save for the future, perhaps for our retirement or for an extended holiday abroad. We think of places we want to go, things we want to do and things we want to see in the future. However, if we don’t take the steps NOW to care for our health, our savings will end up being spent on medication and health care instead of on the things that we want.

The hardest step to take is the first one!

Canadian hockey legend Wayne Gretzky, often regarded as “the greatest player of all time” is quoted as saying, “You miss 100% of the shots you never take”. Gretzky missed hundreds of shots in his playing career, but the shots that people remember are the ones that scored goals. If you don’t take the shot, then obviously you won’t score. It is physically impossible to make a shot that you never took.

In essence, if you never take the first step you will never achieve your goals. This applies to any situation in life, including creating healthier habits. All it takes is making the choice to make changes and you are on your way to a healthier life.

8 keys to success!

1. Have a plan

You must have a plan of what you intend to do, how you want to incorporate healthier choices and then simply follow the plan. Then compare your progress with your plan later down the track, may it be 30, 60 or 90 days later. Using a journal is a great way to track your progress. Even on days where you feel de-motivated, you can encourage yourself by looking back and reviewing the progress you have made.

2. Benchmark yourself

In order to determine the progress you make, you need to know the current status of your health and note the areas of needed improvement.

3. Consult your health practitioner

To make benchmarking easier, consult your health care practitioner. Your health care practitioner can help you monitor things you may not notice or can’t see for yourself. Make a booking with your local GP to get your cholesterol, blood pressure and sugar levels checked. In addition to seeing your GP, your chiropractor can evaluate the state of your spine, posture and muscles and even prescribe suitable exercises that won’t predispose you to injury.

4. Be patient

You’ve made the right choice and taken the first steps, now you need keep it up and be patient. You won’t see immediate benefits overnight, unless you were bitten by a radioactive spider and develop a six-pack overnight!

5. Expect obstacles

Unexpected things happen. It may be a sudden death, loss of a job, injury or even a party that you only recently found out about. It may break your routine for a short period of time, but don’t let it take you completely off track. If you plan for obstacles to happen, you will be better equipped to handle them and move on.

6. Sleep

We have discussed the benefits of sleep in a previous article. It is far better to get a good nights rest, than to stay up late to work on tasks. You will wake up in a much more productive state and be more likely to make better health choices, e.g. instead of staying up late snacking on a Snickers, you go to bed early, wake up refreshed for your morning fitness regime and enjoy a substantial nutritious breakfast after.

7. Exercise

One of your health goals should be to exercise for 30-60 minutes three to five days a week. It will go a long way in helping you achieve a healthier body. Try something that you find fun. I enjoy tennis and soccer, hence I play those sports. Don’t force yourself onto activities that you loathe since you will be less likely to stick at it. However, this rule doesn’t apply if you don’t like any form of exercise!

8. Keep it fun!

We all get bored easily, so having a plan that is too regimented will result in failure. When planning your new healthy lifestyle, why not invite a friend to join in. Make time each week for a bit of recreation and socializing. Surround yourself with positive people who encourage you for your efforts. It will make staying motivated a lot easier!

“You miss 100% of the shots you never take!”

Apply Gretzky’s advice; take the shot; choose a healthier life; and you too can become a LEGEND!

 

The Best Way To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You – Expert Tips To Make Him Sorry He Hurt You

A breakup might not really be a breakup at all until you go charging after your ex boyfriend screaming you cannot live without him. If he told you he needed a break or some space he might have meant he needed time to work something out. But it still upset and hurt you unnecessarily and he needs to be made to feel sorry for hurting you.

The best way to get your ex boyfriend back is to make him miss you. If you had left him alone, he might be missing you already. But the more you push him the more you will turn the need for space into a breakup. When a man says he needs space or a break, you should respect his wishes and leave him alone.

If possible you should get completely away. Take a vacation or visit relative in another state. This will give you time to get a grip on your emotions and give your ex time to work out his problems and begin to miss you. When you get back, spend more time with your family. They will give you the love and support to rebuild your confidence.

Once you feel confident again, go out and have some fun. Stay away from places your ex boyfriend hangs out because you are not ready to see him yet. You want him to hear of your activities and think he might be losing you. He will be surprised to think you might be having a good time without him. He thought you would be sitting at home waiting for him to call.

Thinking you might be slipping away from him will make your ex sorry he said he needed space. He will realize that he has hurt you and be sorry for it. Your ex boyfriend will be kicking himself for thinking a lovely girl like would just sit around and wait. All of this will make him want to find out if he has a chance to get you back.

You will probably get an email from him asking how you are doing. This will just be to see if you will answer him. If you don’t answer him, he will be even more sorry he hurt you. After a few days with no answer to the email, he will swallow his pride and call. You will almost have to be tied down to keep you from taking his call, but let him leave a message.

The reason you should not take his call should be obvious. You will be too emotional and start to cry at the sound of his voice. Wait a few days until you feel calm enough and return his call. This also gives you the advantage of ending the conversation at anytime. If your ex tells you he is sorry he hurt you, forgive him, but don’t cry. The best way to get your ex boyfriend back is to let this call lead to more communication and soon you will be dating again.

3 Ways to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You

Are you looking for ways to make your ex girlfriend miss you? Then read on for some valuable information.  Just because she is out of your life for now does not mean she will not return.  Try these three methods to make her miss your company and you will be back together in no time!

Turn Up the Fanfare

Your friends can be a helpful tool in the fight to win back your love! Never insult or badmouth your ex girlfriend. Instead, only say positive things and speak highly of your time as a couple. Mutual friends will be sure to pass the word along to your ex.  Also, keep your friends informed of life changes and improvements. Once she starts hearing about how you are fixing your life, she will surely be intrigued.

Play Hard to Get

Stay away from your ex. This may include avoiding places you know they like to visit. When it comes to love, out of sight does not mean out of mind. Actually, the opposite may be true. If she can see you, she knows where you are and can assess who you are with.  If she does not see you, then she will wonder if you have found someone else. This will put some urgency on any second thoughts she may be having. This is one of the best ways to make your ex girlfriend miss you.

Casual Encounter

After a period of absence, let her catch a glimpse of you in a social setting-maybe a mutual friend’s party or your favorite bar or club.  Do not approach her, in fact, just act as though she is another party goer or club patron.  It is always wise to take along some friends. They will act as a support and confidence builder for you. Also, once she sees you having a great time in a crowd, she will surely be curious about what she is missing!